Legendary Composer Leonard Bernstein and His Mentor Aaron Copland's Private Letters Reveal Forbidden ‘Sexual Desire’
Legendary Composer Leonard Bernstein and His Mentor Aaron Copland's Private Letters Reveal Forbidden ‘Sexual Desire’
Jeremy HelligarMon, April 27, 2026 at 12:00 PM UTC
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Leonard Bernstein (left) and Aaron Copland in 1945.Credit: History Archive/Universal Images Group via Getty -
American composers Leonard Bernstein and Aaron Copland met in 1937 on Copland's 37th birthday
The two men would maintain a close friendship until Bernstein's death in October 1990
The new documentary Bernstein's Wall covers the life and career of Bernstein and is now playing at Film Forum in New York City
The 2023 Bradley Cooper-directed biopic Maestro detailed the decades-long relationship between legendary composer Leonard Bernstein (played by Cooper) and his wife, actress Felicia Montealegre (played by Carey Mulligan).
The romantic drama also touched on the closeted Bernstein's various sexual exploits and romantic entanglements with men, which, as the film presented them, was a source of friction in his 27-year-long marriage, which ended with the death off Montealegre in 1978 at age 56.
The new documentary Bernstein’s Wall, directed by Douglas Tirola and released in theaters April 24, tells Bernstein’s story mostly in his own words, “entirely from television interviews, news footage, home movies, audio clips, and personal letters," according to a synopsis.
Leonard Bernstein.Credit: 4th Row Films.
In addition to his work conducting orchestras (including the New York Philharmonic), Bernstein, who was born in 1918 in Massachusetts, also contributed the music for the landmark Broadway musicals On the Town and West Side Story, the score for the 1954 Oscar-winning film On the Waterfront and other classic works to the American musical canon.
He had great teachers and mentors, including the American composer Aaron Copland, with whom Bernstein had a close personal relationship that spanned more than a half-century.
Leonard Bernstein.Credit: 4th Row Films
In the film, Bernstein touches on his relationship with Copland in an archival recording. “I had great teachers of conducting, but I never had a composition teacher," he says. "The closest I ever came to that was with Aaron Copland. I revere and worship Aaron Copland for what he taught me about composition."
Although there is no conclusive proof that they were lovers, the consensus seems to be that they may have had a brief romantic relationship at some point. Words from a series of letters between Bernstein and Copland shown in the documentary suggest Bernstein's admiration for Copland may have been more than artistic.
“To Aaron, from Lenny”
"Dear Aaron Copland, Earth-Scorcher, I can’t kid myself anymore. I still hate to be alone, and that’s where you come in; you’re the only one who persists and persists and then this wish for closeness manifests itself in a sexual desire, the more promiscuous the better."
Aaron Copland (left) and Leonard Bernstein in 1970.Credit: CBS via Getty
“To Lenny, from Aaron”
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"Dear Pupil: What terrifying letters you write! Fit for the flames is what they are. Just imagine how much you would have to pay to retrieve such a letter forty years from now when you are conductor of the Philharmonic. I don’t mean that you mustn’t write such letters (to me that is), but I mustn’t forget to burn them."
Copland's words underscore the fact that at the time, in the mid-20th century, being openly gay could cost someone their livelihood, their reputation and even their freedom.
In another letter Bernstein wrote to Copland after meeting his future wife, he wrote: "Dear A, Mad party at Arthur Berger's last night. I left with Paul Morrison and it was like old times (remember the Boston incident?). I'm as confused as ever with my new girlfriend, whom I'm afraid to involve unfairly."
Several letters from Montealegre are presented in the film, suggesting she was aware of her husband's sexual orientation and, to some degree, accepted it. "I am willing to accept you as you are, without sacrificing myself on the L.B. Altar," she wrote in one letter presented in the documentary.
"You are a homosexual and may never change. You don't admit to the possibility of a double life," she continues, "but if your whole nervous system depends on a certain sexual pattern, what can you do? You are not yourself, and this produces painful barriers and tensions for both of us. Let's see what happens if you are free to do as you like without guilt or confession."
Bernstein and Copland met in 1937, on Copland’s 37th birthday, and maintained a close relationship for the rest of their lives. Both men died in 1990, about six weeks apart (Bernstein on Oct. 14 at age 72, Copland on Dec. 2 at age 90).
Leonard Bernstein.Credit: 4th Row Films
Bernstein’s Wall also covers Bernstein’s childhood and young adulthood with a disapproving father, his first time conducting the New York Philharmonic at age 25 (making him the youngest person to do so), his civil rights and anti-war activism, and much more.
"He is essentially our narrator," Tirola says in the press notes, "but instead of having an omniscient tone, the film feels as if Bernstein just walked into a bar after a performance, sat next to you, and shared his story and most intimate thoughts as a way to teach and preach his meaning of life."
Bernstein's Wall is now playing at Film Forum in New York City.
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